Texas man thinks his wife is having an affair after she asks for a divorce so he shoots her

LONGVIEW, TX – The quiet suburban streets of Longview were shaken in late September when a welfare check at a modest brick home revealed a scene that has left the community grieving and searching for answers.

Police responding to an afternoon call on September 22 entered the residence to find 62-year-old Kathleen Bullock dead in a bathroom, the victim of a gunshot wound. Her husband, 66-year-old Lavan Bullock, was quickly identified as the primary suspect and now faces a first-degree murder charge in her death.

Court records in Longview paint a grim picture of the hours leading up to and following the killing. Investigators allege that Lavan Bullock sent a series of harrowing text messages to a friend shortly after the incident, confessing to the crime and hinting at a troubled marital history. In these messages, he reportedly claimed to have “lost [his] mind” before pulling the trigger on his wife.

After the shooting, Lavan Bullock is believed to have made an attempt on his own life, informing his friend by text that he had taken 30 sleeping pills. Emergency responders, arriving on the Longview scene, transported him to a local hospital for treatment of what authorities described as non-life-threatening injuries.

As police gathered details, the friend who received Bullock’s texts shared that Kathleen had had asked for a divorce only weeks earlier. Adding another layer to the tragedy, neighbors told investigators that Lavan Bullock had expressed suspicions that his wife might be involved in an affair. Both revelations deepened concerns about mounting tension behind the closed doors of their home.

Loneliness, despair, and a lifetime of grievances seemed to come to a head in those final hours. According to police, in his final messages, Lavan Bullock requested that a preacher be called and pleaded that his daughter not enter the family’s house. He closed one message with a haunting apology: “Thank you my friend! I’m so sorry to end it this way!”

Following his hospital stay, Lavan Bullock was booked into the Gregg County Jail, where he remains held on a $1 million bond as the legal process unfolds.

For the neighborhood, the shock has yet to subside. Friends and neighbors described the Bullocks as a quiet couple, mostly keeping to themselves but never hinting at the turmoil brewing inside their relationship.

The Longview Police Department continues to investigate the case, piecing together the circumstances that led to such a devastating outcome. No trial date has been set.

As court proceedings move forward, the Bullock family and the Longview community are left to mourn the loss of Kathleen and try to make sense of a tragedy that erupted within the safety of their own streets.