Dad dies after confronting ex-boyfriend accused of choking woman

Billy Grooms died days after stopping an alleged strangulation, and the accused driver now faces murder charges.

HILLSBORO, Ohio — Billy Grooms was unable to survive the injuries he suffered while helping a woman at a gas station, but his family said his final decision allowed donated organs to save at least five other people.

Grooms, a 49-year-old husband and father, died June 4 after a Ford F-150 struck and dragged him during a confrontation four days earlier. Police said he had stepped in as a woman was being strangled and beaten in a South High Street parking lot. A grand jury has since charged Javen Austin Meadows, 23, with two counts of murder and five other offenses. The allegations remain unproved in court.

For Grooms’ relatives, the organ donations became the last part of the same story that brought him into the parking lot confrontation. His wife, Amy Grooms, described him as a compassionate man who did not seek attention but would act when another person needed help. His sister-in-law, Angela Osborn, said saving people was simply part of who he was. Hospital workers prepared an honor walk as his family faced the end of life support and the transfer of his organs for transplantation. Osborn said the donations meant Grooms would continue helping others even after doctors could no longer save him. The family’s account placed a second form of rescue after the violence: first, the woman who survived the alleged assault, and then the patients whose treatment depended on donated organs.

The woman at the center of the May 31 confrontation publicly connected her survival to Grooms. She said she believed he was a hero and that his actions saved her life. Her identity has not been released, and public records have not provided a complete medical account of her injuries. Police allege that Meadows grabbed her by the throat, strangled her, threw her down, kicked her and later punched her. The allegations describe a sustained attack rather than a single blow. Court records also say Meadows took her phone after she regained her footing. By the time Grooms approached, relatives said, the woman was in immediate danger and the attack was still unfolding.

Grooms was not at the station alone. One of his sons was with him and witnessed the confrontation that led to his father’s fatal injuries, according to family and news reports. Grooms approached the attacker and told him to let the woman go, Osborn said. He helped separate the two, giving the woman a chance to get away from the assault. Amy Grooms said Meadows then entered the pickup, drove toward her husband, struck him and dragged him. The public filings do not state the exact distance Grooms was carried or identify where his son was standing when the truck moved. Those details may emerge in testimony, police reports or evidence introduced in court.

The violence occurred shortly after 2:30 a.m. at a South High Street business identified in reports as a Holtfield gas station. Investigators allege Meadows had followed a former girlfriend to the property. As he arrived in the F-150, he struck another truck before parking, according to the initial affidavit. He then walked to that vehicle and attacked the woman. Early accounts did not make clear whether she was the former girlfriend whom Meadows allegedly followed. The difference has not been publicly resolved. Prosecutors have not released the full relationship history, communications before the encounter or an explanation of why the vehicles converged at the station.

Emergency responders found Grooms with severe trauma. He had several broken bones and a serious brain injury, and he was airlifted from the area for hospital care. Amy Grooms said relatives hoped physicians could stop or reduce the swelling in his brain. Instead, his condition declined over several days. The family then confronted two linked decisions: accepting that treatment would not restore him and allowing the organ donation process to proceed. Grooms was removed from life support June 4. Relatives said at least five recipients stood to benefit from his donations, although their identities and medical circumstances were not released.

The death also left Grooms’ household without its primary provider. Family members described him as a working father devoted to his wife and sons. A public fundraiser was established to help with bills, funeral costs and the sudden loss of his income. It collected more than $30,000 during the first wave of public attention. The campaign and relatives’ statements portrayed a man who was not broadly social but formed strong ties with the people close to him. Amy Grooms said those who knew her husband understood that he cared deeply. She said he would have stepped in for anyone, not only someone he recognized.

Police initially arrested Meadows on charges tied to the alleged assault on the woman. The first reported counts were strangulation and assault, filed through Hillsboro Municipal Court. At that stage, Grooms was hospitalized and then newly deceased, and investigators said more charges could follow. The case remained under review while police gathered evidence and prosecutors considered how Ohio law applied to the pickup’s movement and Grooms’ death. That process resulted in a seven-count indictment returned July 7 by a Highland County grand jury.

The indictment now accuses Meadows of purposely causing Grooms’ death and, in a separate murder count, causing the death as a result of committing or attempting to commit felonious assault. It also includes attempted murder involving another person, two felonious assault counts, strangulation and a vehicle-forfeiture specification. One assault allegation identifies the pickup as a deadly weapon or dangerous instrument. The charges describe three victims across the encounter, though the public indictment account does not fully explain each person’s role. Meadows is entitled to contest every allegation and require prosecutors to prove the case beyond a reasonable doubt.

The two murder counts give jurors different legal routes to consider if the case reaches trial. One focuses on whether the killing was purposeful. The other focuses on whether Grooms died as the direct result of an alleged felonious assault. The attempted murder count asks whether Meadows engaged in conduct toward a surviving person that would have resulted in murder if successful. The prosecution also seeks forfeiture of the F-150, alleging Meadows possessed or owned the vehicle and used it during the offenses. No publicly reported ruling has determined whether the government may ultimately take the truck.

A full criminal case may require evidence from far beyond the short affidavits and family interviews released so far. Investigators could present photographs of the parking lot, measurements of tire paths, medical records, vehicle examinations and electronic data. Surveillance recordings, if any exist, could clarify the order and speed of events. Witnesses may include the woman, Grooms’ son, occupants of the other truck, station employees and emergency responders. The defense may dispute intent, perception, visibility or the accuracy of memories formed during a frightening encounter. Prosecutors must also link each charge to a specific victim and act.

The case has already changed significantly since the first reports. Meadows was described as 22 when he was arrested in early June and as 23 in the July indictment report. Early stories focused on the strangulation allegation and said charges related to Grooms remained pending. The grand jury’s action formally brought Grooms’ death into the criminal prosecution. It also moved the matter from the limited jurisdiction of municipal court toward proceedings in Highland County Common Pleas Court, where felony charges such as murder are heard.

Grooms’ relatives have spoken more about his character than about punishment. Their comments return to the instant when he saw a woman on the ground and chose to approach. Amy Grooms said that had he survived, she would have told him that she loved him and that he had done what his heart told him was right. Osborn said the family struggled to understand that his life ended because he tried to save someone else. The woman who survived said she would carry her gratitude with her forever.

That gratitude now runs beside a court case that may take months or longer to resolve. Meadows must answer charges alleging murder, attempted murder, felonious assault and strangulation, while Grooms’ family measures his legacy through the woman who escaped and the transplant recipients who received his final gifts.

Author note: Last updated July 10, 2026.